By Jack Grave
Nothing’s more embarrassing than being with a woman, ready to have sex… and then failing to get fully hard.
Or perhaps you’ve found that you can get hard, but then can’t keep it hard.
Or maybe the stiffness of your erection just isn’t enough to satisfy your partner fully.
Now most guys when they experience this situation respond in one of two ways…
1) They act helpless, get frustrated, deny the problem or try to make up with it through things like oral sex… All of which are related because they’re assuming that there’s nothing they can do.
2) They begin purchasing and using expensive medication to get hard.
Now here’s my (somewhat ruthless) opinion of these two responses…
Response #1 sucks because it assumes helplessness and I personally can’t stand the idea that I don’t have the power to change my circumstances. In fact, that’s just something I flat out refuse to believe. I believe that with the right resources, approach and commitment, virtually anything is possible as long as you don’t give up.
Response #2 sucks because there are a bunch of side-effects that come with the use of these types of medication, especially if used in the long-term, and this is something that I don’t think is worth risking when there are better solutions out there. Then to top that off, this medication becomes very expensive once you become dependent on it and have to use it on a regular basis.
So being someone that likes to march to the beat of my own drum I created a third option…
Here it is…
3) Train yourself to be able to get and stay rock hard on command naturally.
Think about this for a second…
As long as you have the physical capability to get hard (even if that’s only while masturbating, watching porn or even while sleeping) doesn’t that mean you should be able to get and stay hard during sex?
The obvious answer is YES.
If physically you can get hard at one point in time, why wouldn’t you be able to in another.
The only thing that can be stopping you is what’s going through your head.
The difference between your ability to get hard when you’re alone and when you’re with a woman is the way you represent those situations in your mind.
Therefore if you want to be able to get and stay hard you’ve got to use proven psychological techniques to retrain your mind to embrace real-life sexual situations with confidence and arousal so that you can get and stay hard for as long as you want.
Now I appreciate that all this may sound a bit “out there”, but this is exactly what works for the men I’ve taught my process to.
OK, so how do you actually “retrain your mind”?
Well, get started by using visualization.
And before you tell me that you can’t visualize, realize that you don’t need to be some jedi-master to do it.
Visualization just means seeing things in your head.
And if you still think you can’t visualize, then all you have to do is get a feel for what I’m about to recommend…
For the next week or two, take 5 minutes each day and visualize yourself handling sexual situations with confidence.
Instead of responding to sexual situations with fear and anxiety, see yourself responding like James Bond and see yourself getting and staying rock-hard throughout.
Now if you’re new to all this stuff this may sound like a strange exercise, but you’ll be amazed at what kind of impact visualizing change can have.
Ask any successful business person or any successful athlete and they’ll tell you that before achieving what they achieved they first saw it in their mind with visualization.
But luckily you don’t have to be rich or famous to use visualization… anyone can do it and I recommend you start using it to help yourself right now.
Oh, and if you’d like to discover more methods for retraining your mind to overcome performance anxiety and get and stay hard… as well learning physical techniques and the specific foods to eat to get and keep harder erections, then watch this video of mine by clicking the image below…