Never Wear This On A First Date
Let’s start things off with a quick question. What is the first item in your checklist when you’re taking a woman you’ve got your eye on out on a date for the first time? Making a good impression is definitely it, right?
Well, unlike what you’re thinking right now, this isn’t something that is predictable or boring. I learned from a sociology book I’ve read a while back that men are naturally wired to put their best foot forward when trying to establish a relationship with a woman on an emotional level.
Now while you may have already given your outfit lots of careful once overs, there is a chance that you missed one key factor that can significantly affect how you look to your date. Let me explain what I mean…
During my extensive research into the female psychology, I learned that women are basically visual creatures when it comes to dates. They tend to make their first impressions on the looks of the guy they are out with.
If a woman likes what she sees, your chances of convincing her to go on a second date with you become higher. If she thinks there’s something wrong with your getup…well, it isn’t that tough to guess how things will play out during your date.
And one of the most interesting things I stumbled upon during my research is the very close relationship between women and shoes. I know this sounds crazy right now, but you’re definitely going to be more careful with your footwear when you follow along…
See, if your date is anything like most women, chances are she has a special spot in her heart for shoes. And you will find it very difficult to make a connection with her if you don’t give your shoes the attention they deserve.
This is because dirty shoes are one of the biggest red flags for women during dates. Besides affecting your overall look, wearing dirty shoes on a first date also makes a woman feel that you are sloppy and irresponsible.
What’s even more interesting is this doesn’t just affect her impression of you from a stylish point of view. Wearing dirty shoes on a first date also stimulates her brain to produce and release stress hormones.
When these stress hormones get released in her body, they set off key changes that greatly influence her mood. Apart from becoming impatient and irritated, these stress hormones also raise her anxiety levels.
And your date is definitely not going to go as you expected it to be when this happens.
So make it a point not to just grab a pair of shoes for your date at the last minute. Keep in mind to give the ones you’re wearing all the cleaning and jazzing up they need as well to really kick off your date on a positive note.