Keep This In Mind To Really Encourage Her To Talk On Your First Date
One of the worst things that can happen during a first date is the woman you’re out with clamming up on you. See, if you can’t establish an emotional connection with your date, the whole thing is just going to be a disaster before you know it.
If you’re anything like most men, you probably think that first dates are one of the trickiest things that you’ll ever go through in your life. Besides being a different experience each time, the factors that you’ve got to take note of also change with every woman you go out with.
Now while I’ve previously pointed out that overall grooming and punctuality are very crucial when it comes to first dates, knowing how to get a meaningful conversation going during one should also be a key priority in your checklist.
But the thing is I’ve learned during my extensive research in the male dating psychology that a lot of guys seem to have a problem breaking the ice when they’re going out with a woman the very first time.
Although there isn’t a magic bullet that will immediately transform your gift of gab to amazing proportions unlike what some self-proclaimed “dating gurus” are saying, I’ve come across a simple technique that can help boost your chances of successfully making your date to start exchanging meaningful ideas with you.
Make sure you follow along to find out more…
A lot of men mistakenly believe that the best way to get a conversation going during a first date is to talk about the most complicated thing that they could think of to give the woman they’re out with the impression that they’re quite smart.
And this mindset also encourages the notion that the more difficult the subject is, the better the effect on a woman will be.
But the thing is this has a rather opposite effect on your date should you decide to go for this strategy. Besides making the woman you’re out with feel that you’re trying too hard to impress her, she’s also going to have the notion that you’re a blowhard, which is definitely not the effect you’re aiming for in the first place.
I’ve learned that one way of boosting your chances of successfully breaking the ice on a first date is talking about the most trivial of subjects. You could ask her about the TV series she’s currently following or perhaps the cartoon character she likes until now.
This is because these things almost don’t require your date to think for a long time to come up with an answer and they will also make her feel that you’re not a difficult person to exchange ideas with.
Remember, the more trivial your questions are, the easier it will be to make her share ideas. Sure this sounds rather simplistic, but you’ll be surprised with the results when you give this one a try on your next first date.