Don’t Do This During A Date If You’re Looking To Make Her Like You
So let’s set something straight before we begin. Unlike what a lot of so-called “pickup artists” and “dating gurus” are saying, there is no technique that you can do to instantly make a woman attracted to you on a date.
Although there are ways to help you boost your chances of making a woman like you, there isn’t a magic bullet that can make you pull the whole thing off. I am now going to present our blog post for today…
If you’re anything like most guys, I’m pretty sure that making a woman like you when you go out with her the first is a top priority in your checklist. And unless you pull this off, chances are your date won’t turn out the way like you want it to.
Unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying though, doing just that isn’t about wearing loud clothes or perhaps acting self-important to give your date the notion that you are the alpha male.
Believe me you’re simply going to make the whole thing a disaster before you know it. And that’s even if you’re already bringing your dating A-game into play.
But the thing is I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that there is a mistake a lot of men make that can easily prevent them from liking them almost immediately in social situations, say, during a date.
Let me explain what I mean…
At its simplest, making a woman that you’re on a date with to like you is mainly about stimulating her brain to produce and release positive hormones like oxytocin and dopamine. Besides making her feel happier and more relaxed, these hormones also help her become more sociable in the process.
The more of these positive hormones are churned out in her body, the chances that she will like you will be much higher. If you’ve been following my posts for a while now, you probably already know
Now while you can check out a few helpful grooming pointers here and a no-fuss technique to get a meaningful conversation with a woman on a date here, we will tackle a dating mistake a lot of men seem to overlook that can prevent her from getting to like you.
And this mistake is glancing at your watch every few minutes.
I know this sounds a bit surprising, but this basically gives your date the idea that you find her dull and boring. Instead of coaxing her brain to release positive hormones, their negative counterparts – or stress hormones – get in the picture, which will only gradually raise her anxiety levels.
When these stress hormones reach a certain level, the woman you’re out with won’t just feel impatient and restless, but will also have the urge to be somewhere else. Game over for your date.
So the next time you’re on a date with a woman, keep in mind to focus your attention on her and not on your smartphone. This also includes other gadgets like tablets and mp3 players that may have the habit of bringing along with you wherever you go.