So You're Trying To Start A Meaningful Conversation With Her

So You’re Trying To Start A Meaningful Conversation With Her

Now here’s the thing…

You’re on a first date with a woman you’ve got your eye on and she’s clamming up no matter how hard you try to break the ice. Don’t worry. If you’re anything like most guys, you are sure to have this problem.

Follow along to find out how you can fix this the next time around…

One of the most crucial factors of making a first date successful is getting a meaningful conversation going with the woman that you’re going out with. Besides making her feel more comfortable and relaxed around you, you’re also going to know your date better in the process.

Not mentioning the personal tidbits that you are going to be privy to while at it that you can use to dazzle her as you go along.

But the thing is you’re simply noticing that your date tends to clam up when you’re trying to engage her in a meaningful exchange of ideas the first time the both of you are going out together.

Sure this can be a bit disappointing, but this doesn’t mean that your first date gift of gab is already hopeless. Chances are you just need to take on a different approach to get an eloquent conversation going with her.

And I’ve got just the tip that I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that can help start the ball rolling. Make sure you read on to get the lowdown on how you can pull this off…

For starters, breaking the ice during a first date can be rather tricky because it is basically a time when you’re still, say figuratively feeling each other out. Apart from thinking of the best things to talk about depending on the weather, the food you’re having as well as the general ambiance of the place you’re in, you’re also figuring out which topics she’ll be really interested in.

However, it’s simply a hit-or-miss affair when you think of it as a whole. It’s either the woman you’re going out with may not like small talk or perhaps the topic you’re going for isn’t appealing for her, which could set you up for disaster sooner or later.

Now we’ve got that covered, here’s the pointer I was telling you about earlier…

I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that women tend to be more responsive to topics that are simple and trivial.

Sure this may sound quite surprising right now, but you’re much better off starting your conversation asking your date what TV show she’s currently following or the name of her favorite book.

This is because besides giving her the notion that you’re not pretentious, it won’t take her a long time to answer and express her ideas while at it, which encourages your date to be more immersed with your conversation.

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