A Tip To Make Your Date Like You

A Tip To Make Your Date Like You

Unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying, making a woman like you during a first date isn’t about wearing loud clothes to supposedly get her complete attention or perhaps going all out with the bling to give her the notion that you are a man of power and fortune.

Think about it. You’ll just end up making your date feel that you’re a big sack of hot air. And where do you think it will lead your date to? Well, you get the idea.

So here’s the situation…

You have finally convinced the woman you’ve got your eye on for a long time now to go on a first date with you. Besides making sure that you’re pulling out all the stops even right to the smallest detail, you’ve also spent a lot of time planning your outfit to really wow her as soon as she sees you.

But the problem is your date doesn’t appear to be even slightly interested in you during the big day (or night). Apart from being seemingly restless and impatient, she also doesn’t listen to you when you’re trying to engage her in a meaningful exchange of ideas.

Unlike what a lot of guys wrongly believe, though, it doesn’t mean that your date thinks that going out with you is a big mistake and she’s already regretting her decision. I discovered something during my extensive research into the female psychology that may just help you understand the whole thing in a woman’s point of view.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

If you’re anything like most men, chances are you’d like to go for the fanciest and most sophisticated venue when you’re putting the details of your first date together. You’re basically giving the woman the notion that you’d like to make your date as special for her so convincing her to go out with you again won’t be that tricky to pull off.

However, I learned that although you may have the right intention, women tend to look at it in a very different perspective.

Instead of feeling really special and excited about your first date, she will simply feel that she’s going to a job interview or some other nerve-racking event, which will just promote a surge of stress hormones in her body sooner or later.

Apart from making her feel impatient, anxious and rather uncomfortable, she’s also going to end up not that enthusiastic to be engaged in a meaningful conversation – even if you’re kicking things off with trivial questions to ease her into it.

Now while I am not saying that you shouldn’t pay close attention to the venue of your first date, I highly suggest that you pick a place that she’s more accustomed to like her favorite deli or bar so she’ll be more comfortable and sociable.

(Here’s another dating mistake that you should always keep clear of while we’re on the subject to help increase your chances of really giving her an amazing time.)

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