She Won't Be Convinced To Go On A Second Date With You If You Do This

She Won’t Be Convinced To Go On A Second Date With You If You Do This

If you’re anything like most guys, I’m pretty sure that your top priority when you have a first date with a woman is convincing her to go out with you again. However, unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying, there’s no instant way of pulling this off.

Besides wearing loud clothes to give a woman the impression that she should focus her complete attention on you, they also recommend acting like the alpha male to make her feel that she’s going to be safe around you.

Put yourself in your date’s shoes for a bit. How would you think your date will turn out when you find out that the guy you’re going out with is a complete jerk with a terrible fashion taste? Well, I think you already have an idea of how the whole thing will come about by now.

Interestingly, I’ve learned a mistake during my extensive research into the female psychology that easily saps away a woman’s enthusiasm to go on a second date with a guy. Why not follow along to find out what this is to boost your chances of convincing her to go out with you again?

If you’ve been following my posts for a while now, you probably already know that the most important thing to keep in mind when it comes to making a woman say yes to a second date is making her body release the right kind of hormones and neurotransmitters like dopamine and oxytocin while you’re at it.

These positive neurotransmitters and hormones help a woman become more relaxed and sociable. Besides preventing your date from becoming reserved, they also help make it easier for her to exchange meaningful ideas with you.

Now here’s the mistake that I was telling you about earlier…

Perhaps you’ve already heard of the dating cliché “dinner and a movie.” Sure it may sound like a perfect formula to give her a romantic first date, but it’s actually one of the worst strategies that you can go for.

Although there’s nothing wrong with sharing a meal with the woman you’re on a first date with, immediately taking her to somewhere dark like a cinema or a movie theater is another story. While your intentions may be pure and friendly, she might think that you’re rushing to get more intimate with her.

And this will easily make her feel anxious in no time.

Choose another activity to make a woman feel more relaxed and comfortable around you. Besides going to the park or perhaps window shopping together, you can also ask for her inputs to earn some brownie while you’re at it.

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