Keep Clear From The Friendzone With This Simple Pointer

Keep Clear From The Friendzone With This Simple Pointer

So here’s the situation…

If you’re anything like most guys, I’m pretty sure that one of your worst nightmares is finally confessing up to a woman you like with the intention of taking your relationship to a new level, but she just replies with “you’re such a good friend” – or worse “you’re like a brother to me.”

It simply means one thing when she tells you this: you’ve just been handed a one-way ticket to the friend zone. And to make things even worse, you’re also in for a lot of frustration and embarrassment while at it.

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, getting stuck in the friend zone isn’t something that you should beat yourself up with. Lots of guys – more than you can ever imagine – are actually falling into it all the time.

But the thing is I’ve also learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that the belief that getting trapped in the friend zone is inevitable is wrong. And what’s even more interesting is I stumbled upon a strategy you can use to avoid it completely.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

At its simplest, the friend zone can be easily defined as a relationship between a man and a woman where he has romantic interest for her, but she only views him as a close pal. Besides being very awkward, it’s also going to be more embarrassing than being rejected outright because you know that you’re going to be trapped in it.

Unless you do something, that is.

See, the belief that getting stuck in the friend zone as something that’s unavoidable isn’t true. And I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology a strategy you can bring into play to keep clear from it.

Let me explain what I mean…

As her friend, you might find yourself hearing her vent about her problems with other guys from time to time. Now while it’s alright to lend an ear when she’s opening herself up to you, making her feel that you’re her “go-to therapist” to discuss men problems isn’t a good idea.

This is because she’s just going to develop a mindset that she can tell you everything she has on her mind, which will make her think twice about establishing a romantic relationship with you in the future because you’re already privy to most of her guy hang-ups, quirks and even shortcomings.

Make it a point to remember that you should set boundaries with what the woman you’ve got your eye on shares when you lend an ear. If you think that what she’s telling you is more appropriate for her girlfriends to hear, tell her right then and there.

Or else you may just find yourself trapped in the friend zone before you know it.

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