Avoid This Dating No-No Always

Avoid This Dating No-No Always

I’m really disappointed with what a lot of self-proclaimed “dating gurus” are saying these days. Besides stressing that acing a date is no more than just following a few pointers that are supposedly proven to make a woman feel rather close to you, they’re also giving the notion that these tips work every time you bring them into play.

And chances are your date is just going to end in disaster if you follow these pointers, particularly the one about wearing loud clothes to really grab a woman’s attention as well as acting like an “alpha male” to make her feel that she’s going to be safe and protected when she’s with you.

Put yourself in a woman’s shoes for a moment and think what would happen if you show up on a date acting like a complete jerk with a bad fashion taste. Well, that easily gives you an idea of how your date will turn out, right?

Now we’ve got that covered, I’m going to reveal a key dating mistake I learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that will keep you from convincing a woman to go out with you again.

Let me explain what I mean…

If you’ve been following my posts for a while now, you probably already know that getting a meaningful conversation going plays a crucial role in establishing a connection with a woman on your date. Besides making her feel at ease around you, exchanging ideas with her also helps you know things about her that you can use to earn brownie points as you go along.

Although initiating a nice conversation with a woman on a date isn’t something that can be achieved at the drop of a hat, kicking things off by asking trivial questions is one smart way to do just that.

And while we’re on the subject, here’s the dating mistake that I was telling you about earlier…

Most guys tend to allow themselves to get really nervous when trying to engage a woman they’re out with on a date in a meaningful conversation.

Sure getting one going can be pretty unnerving, but allowing yourself to become exceedingly nervous already promotes an overload of negative hormones in your body, which will only raise your anxiety levels like crazy and give your date the idea that she picked the wrong guy to go out with.

Interestingly, chances are the woman you’re on a date with is as nervous as you are, too. Keep in mind to take it easy and you’re on your way to convincing her to go out with you again.

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