A First Date Mistake A Lot Of Guys Unknowingly Make

A First Date Mistake A Lot Of Guys Unknowingly Make

Unlike what a lot of so-called “pickup artists” are saying, acing a first is definitely no walk in the park. Besides involving a lot of careful planning to make sure that all the important details are in place, pulling the whole thing off also doesn’t have to do with acting like the alpha male or showing up in an ensemble of loud clothes.

Come to think of it and put yourself in the shoes of the woman you’re going out with for the first time. How would you feel the moment you discover that your date is a jerk with a really bad fashion taste? Well, that already gives you an idea how the whole thing goes.

And speaking of first date mistakes, I’d like to go over one that most guys unknowingly make that easily gives their dates the notion that they’re rather desperate. There’s even a big possibility that you’re guilty of this one as well.

Let me explain what I mean…

If you’ve been following my posts on AdviceForHim.com for a while now, you probably already know that one of the best strategies that you can go for when it comes to making a first date successful is boosting the amounts of positive hormones in her body.

See, besides making a woman feel more relaxed and sociable when she’s around you, these positive hormones also give her the notion that you’re really fun to be with. And it won’t be that tricky to convince her to go out with you again when make her feel this way.

Now while this may sound surprising, there are actually a lot of ways to pull this off. Besides engaging her in a conversation about trivial things that your date can easily relate to like asking her what her favorite childhood movie or the name of her very first pet is, showing her your sweet side like bringing her flowers and similar simple presents also works, too.

But the thing is a lot of men seem to forget that the keyword here is “simple” and inadvertently overdo it on the presents.

Sure your intention is to make her feel special, but if you show up on a first date like you’ve just ransacked a gift shop, she’ll just have the notion that you’re trying to buy her affection, which will ruin the whole thing before you know it.

Make sure you remember to keep it simple and you’ll be on the right track.

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