Are You Making This Second Date Breaking Mistake?

Are You Making This Second Date Breaking Mistake?

While checking out my inbox this morning, I came across a message from Arnold who shares that his dating career is quite slow these days.

Arnold explains that no matter how much he prepares to make a first date as awesome for the woman he’s going out with, he just couldn’t seem to seal the deal when it comes to convincing her to go on another date with him.

He adds that he’s really wondering why this is happening because he just recently began going for only the most luxurious restaurants in town as venues for his first dates to raise his chances off pulling it off.

Well, I think I already have an idea what keeps Arnold from scoring a second date and I’ll make it clear to you in a bit when you follow along…

If you’re anything like most guys, I’m pretty sure that getting a woman as comfortable and relaxed as she can is one of the biggest priorities in your first date checklist. Besides giving her the notion that you’ve really gone the extra mile to prepare for your date, it’s also much easier to get a meaningful conversation going with her while at it.

But the thing is I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that while keeping in mind to choose a nice venue for your first date is a must, overdoing the whole thing will just lead to disaster.

Sure picking a very luxurious restaurant may be a great idea when organizing a first date, but this actually makes a woman feel that she’s going on a job interview or some other serious engagement instead, which somehow causes a surge of stress hormones in her body.

Apart from making her feel a bit more nervous than usual, it can also raise her anxiety levels in the process that can keep her from feeling relaxed and comfortable. Your date is not just going to find it tricky to get a conversation going, but will also feel impatient and unable to concentrate.

And that already gives you an idea of how your first date will go.

Instead of going for the most luxurious restaurant in town, make it a point to pick a venue that your date usually frequents. It could be her favorite deli, bar or hangout. Since she already feels at ease, it would be easier to establish a connection as you go along.

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