Why Your Date Isn't Talking That Much

Why Your Date Isn’t Talking That Much

One of the best signs that a woman is having a great time on a first date with you is when she’s eager to keep a conversation going. It’s hitting two birds with one stone, really. Besides giving you the notion that she’s being comfortable around you, she’s also building an emotional connection with you while at it.

However, you’re simply noticing that you can’t seem to carry on a meaningful exchange of ideas with the woman that you are going out with for the first time, which significantly affects the way your date will turn out.

Now while this problem can be rather disappointing, chances are you’re just making a mistake that can prevent her from really opening up to you. Make sure you follow along to find out more…

At its simplest, I learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that women view first dates as friendly social activities where they can meet new people. But the thing is a lot of guys tend to see them in a very different way: they think that they’re automatically stepping stones to romance.

These men mistakenly believe that as long as they play their cards right on a first date, they’re going to have a girlfriend soon enough.

And when a woman gets the notion that you’re not there to make friends, she’s just going to gradually have a surge of stress hormones that will set off some rather unpleasant effects on her before you know it. Besides making her feel creeped out, these hormones will also get her really anxious and impatient in the process.

Put yourself in a woman’s shoes for a moment, would you still be enthusiastic to get in on a conversation when you’re feeling this way? Well, there’s your answer. Now for the mistake that I was telling you about earlier…

Make sure that you don’t touch on the subject of relationships and anything vaguely connected with it when you’re trying to get a conversation going with her. Keep in mind to wait until she’s the one initiating it or else things will just lead to a first date disaster sooner or later.

One smart strategy you can do is concentrating on trivial topics to make her feel that you’re really interested in her without being too obvious it. Ask her what TV series she’s following these days or perhaps the current album she’s listening to.

I know this sounds rather simplistic, but you’ll be surprised how eager she’ll be at sharing her ideas while at it.

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