A Tip To Make Her Feel More Comfortable Around You

A Tip To Make Her Feel More Comfortable Around You

While checking out my inbox the other day, I came across a message from Pat who asks if there is a way to boost his chances of making a woman comfortable around him, especially during a first date.

Pat adds that although he’s been to a lot of first dates already, he thinks that his dating game can still be improved and he’s very open to expert suggestions to help pull the whole thing off.

First things first, though, before we take on the subject at hand. Thanks, Pat, for asking me for advice on this one. It really means a lot to me and you can be sure to come across more quality posts when you check out AdviceForHim.com.

Now, let’s move on to Pat’s question about making women more comfortable around him during a first date…

Unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying, acing a first date isn’t something instantaneous. Now while keeping a close eye on how you look and smell plays a key role when it comes to making a woman feel more comfortable around you, getting the job done isn’t just about appearances.

There are actually a number of factors that you need to take note of to do this. And one of the things that most men tend to overlook is picking the right venue for a first date. They mistakenly believe that simply going for the most expensive restaurant is already enough.

Interestingly, I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that doing this is actually counterproductive.

Sure you may think that taking a woman to an ultra posh eating place is impressive, but chances are it will only make her feel that she’s going to a job interview instead of a first date. Besides making your date feel anxious, she’s also become more and more impatient by the minute.

And that already gives you an idea how your first date will turn out.

One thing I discovered during my research, though, is women tend to become more sociable and jovial when they’re in an environment that they’re already familiar with. Instead of having a reservation at the most luxurious resto in your area, it’s smarter to go for a local deli or bar as your first date venue.

You’ll also have extra brownie points if it’s a bar or deli that she frequently hangs out in. And while you’re at it, keep in mind to talk about trivial things to help you get on the right track to establishing an emotional connection with her.


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