Why Your Date Is Going Mum On You
Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, acing a first date is more than just making sure that you show up looking and smelling great as well as picking a nice place to take a woman to.
Now while keeping your overall grooming up to par and making your date feel as comfortable as you can when you take her out play key roles in boosting your chances of convincing her to go out with you again, there is one very important factor that you should also include in your checklist.
And this is establishing an emotional connection with her, which is best achieved by getting her to open up to you.
But the thing is some men seem to find it very tricky to engage a woman they’re on a date with in a meaningful conversation. So if you’re having trouble in this department, make sure you follow along to find out what you’re possibly doing wrong…
I’m really disappointed with the stuff that so-called “dating gurus” are saying these days. They’re basically recommending that acing a first date is as simple as going for the most luxurious and expensive restaurant that you can find, looking like a million bucks and projecting an image of pure confidence.
Sure grooming, environment and confidence levels are really important when it comes to convincing a woman to go out with you another time, you’ve got to give her a reason why she needs to or else it’s going to be your first and last date.
This is the reason why you need to make a connection with the woman you’re on a date with by engaging her in a meaningful conversation, which promotes the release of feel-good hormones in her body that make her feel comfortable and relaxed around you. Once she associates these pleasurable feelings with you, asking her to go out with you again won’t be that tough to pull off.
And I learned a simple technique to get a meaningful conversation going on a first date during my extensive research into the female psychology. You simply have to share a humorous thing that happened to you.
It could be anything from a funny situation that you were in way back to an amusing experience that you went through just recently at the office or in school. Although this sounds rather simplistic, this gives your date the notion that you have a great sense of humor and you’re not a phony.
Just make sure you always keep things genuine and not to overdo it and you’ll be on the right track to get a meaningful conversation with your date as you go along.