This Is Why You’re Getting Stuck In The Friend Zone

This Is Why You’re Getting Stuck In The Friend Zone

While checking out my inbox this morning, I came across a message from JF who shares that he is finding it really tricky to take his relationship with a woman he likes to a whole new level. And that’s even if he’s already cranking up his debonair moves up a notch.

Now while getting stuck in the friend zone is no doubt one of the most difficult experiences that you can ever go through, I learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that some guys tend to give women a subtle clue that makes them a likely contender for the title of being “just a friend.”

Let me explain what I mean…

If you’re anything like most men, the friend zone is the last place that you’ll want to be stuck in. Besides being very frustrating that the woman you’re really attracted to only sees you as a friend and not as a potential romantic interest, it’s just going to get worse if you don’t do something about it.

(But the thing is you can easily break free from the friend zone if you want to as I’ve pointed out in a previous post.)

What’s really interesting is it’s not the woman that you’re attracted to that takes on the idea that you’re not a boyfriend material in any way. It’s actually you that can give her the notion that you can be just a friend for her.

I know this sounds surprising right now, but you can easily assess this for yourself by asking this simple question: how often do you give the woman you really like favors?

It could be anything from accompanying her to shop for some clothes to walking her dog, as well as picking her up early in the morning when she’s had one too many to drink and couldn’t drive home.

If the answer is every day, then chances are you’re giving her the idea that you’re simply a guy that has her back every time she’s in a situation, which makes you a “friend” and instantly puts you in the friend zone.

Now while I am not saying that you should completely swear off doing favors to the woman you really like, I’m simply emphasizing that you should not be always at her beck and call each time she needs you to give her the notion that you’re not there to be just her friend.


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