Why You're Having Trouble Getting Her Sexually Aroused

Why You’re Having Trouble Getting Her Sexually Aroused

I’m pretty sure that giving your wife, girlfriend or lover a sex session that she won’t forget anytime soon is the top item in your checklist when things get hot in the bedroom.

Apart from giving her a mind-blowing orgasm (or more if you play your cards right) while the two of you are already at it, your partner will be much more excited to give lovemaking a go as often as you’d like to.

How’s that for two for two, right?

But the thing is you’re simply noticing that it’s taking longer and longer for your wife, girlfriend or lover to get sexually aroused like she used to these days. And that’s even if you’re already pulling out all the stops during foreplay to get her going for action in bed.

There’s no need to worry just yet, though. Sure this problem can make you feel that you’ve already lost your touch when it comes to heating up your partner for lovemaking, but chances are you’re just making a simple mistake that prevents her from really getting in the mood.

And this mistake is having the mindset that making your wife, girlfriend or lover sexually aroused is going straight to her erogenous zones to give them the stimulation that they deserve.

I know this sounds surprising right now, but you’ll find out more when you follow along…

Interestingly, sexual arousal is basically a process. Now while you may get sexually aroused at the drop of a hat, it takes a bit of time for your wife, girlfriend or lover to do so. You’ve got to ease her into it or else your lovemaking session won’t be that enjoyable for her.

And one of the things that can easily disrupt her sexual arousal from really getting in gear is making a beeline to her erogenous zones like the breasts and clitoris. This is because if a woman isn’t totally sexually aroused yet, these erogenous zones won’t produce the pleasurable sensations that they’re capable of.

(There is also a very big possibility that you’re not giving this erogenous zone the TLC that it really deserves.)

They will just churn out sensations that are annoying, uncomfortable, awkward and even painful, which will just derail your efforts at getting your wife, girlfriend or love in the mood for sexual action.

Moreover, unless her sexual arousal gets set off all the way through, she won’t also be experiencing the ideal amounts of pleasurable sensations during lovemaking, which simply means it will be very tricky for you two give her an orgasm no matter how hard you try.

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