Why She's Not Reaching The Big O Anymore

Why She’s Not Reaching The Big O Anymore

While checking out my inbox this morning, I came across a message from Harry who shares that he can’t seem to make his girlfriend come during sex anymore. And that’s even if he’s already pulling out all the stops just to give her an amazing lovemaking session.

Harry adds that it’s already getting him worried that he’s simply lost his ability to make his partner achieve orgasm when things heat up in the bedroom.

Now while having the realization that you can’t make a woman reach the Big O during sex can be rather frustrating, I learned one big factor that can prevent her from doing so during my extensive research into the female sexuality.

Let me explain what I mean…

If you’re anything like most guys, giving your wife, girlfriend or lover an orgasm (or two) while you’re at it in bed is no doubt one of the top priorities in your sexual checklist.

Besides giving your partner a mind-blowing lovemaking session, you’re also going to make her much more excited to get in action with you in the bedroom again sooner than you think. How’s that for two for two?

But the thing is a lot of men seem to overlook a simple yet very significant factor that can keep a woman from reaching the point of no return during sex. And this is because they mistakenly think that they already know all they have to know when it comes to their partner’s sexual satisfaction.

Now while you may have already picked up a few things along the way that can really get your wife, girlfriend or lover going in bed, simply doing the same stuff again and again gradually decreases the pleasurable sensations that she can experience in the process.

Sure you may already know the erogenous zones that your partner likes to be pleasured or perhaps the style of stimulation she prefers, but using these to make a “cheat sheet”  when things get hot in the bedroom will just lessen her pleasure levels in the long run.

And this is perhaps the biggest reason why you just can’t seem to make you wife, girlfriend or lover reach the Big O during sex these days.

This issue isn’t that tricky to fix, though. It’s either you update your sexual checklist to give her a new experience the next time you make love or perhaps simply ask her to run the show when things get hot in the bedroom.

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