Why She's Not Making A Connection With You On Your Date

Why She’s Not Making A Connection With You On Your Date

I am really disappointed at what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying these days.

Besides claiming that wearing loud and flashy clothes on a date will subconsciously give the woman you’re going out with the notion that she should direct her full attention to you, acting self-important and overconfident should also be on your checklist to make her think that you are the alpha male.

Come to think of it, though. If you were to put yourself in your date’s shoes for a moment and see that the guy you’re going out with looks tacky and acts like a complete jerk, would you still want to push through with the whole thing?

Well, there’s your answer.

On a similar note, while checking out my inbox this morning, I came across a message from Jude who shares that he is still having a tricky time making a connection with his dates. Apart from making it a point to carefully go over his grooming and choice of clothes before a date, he also keeps in mind to act appropriately around the woman he’s out with.

But the thing is Jude just couldn’t seal the deal on making a second date happen and it’s already getting him worried.

Now while I believe that acing a first date isn’t something that happens in an instant, there are simple ways to boost your chances of making a woman think that the two of you should go out again soon.

Besides making sure that you look sharp and act like you should with a woman, there’s another key factor that I learned during my extensive research into the female psychology. Let me explain what I mean…

See, the stuff you choose to talk about can easily make or break your chances of making a connection with the woman you’re out with. And if you can’t pull that off, date number two won’t be happening.

And although the first option that you may have probably thought of is getting a conversation going about the most complicated and technical topic that you know of, it’s actually the worst thing that you can do.

Interestingly, going for the simplest and most trivial topics is the way to go because it promotes her brain to churn out positive hormones. Besides giving the woman you’re on a date with the idea that you’re not pretentious, it will also encourage her to open up to you as you go along.

And since positive hormones also make a woman feel excited and happy, your date will associate these feelings with you – which simply means convincing her to go out with a second time won’t be that tough.


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