Why It's Taking Longer For Her To Reach Orgasm These Days

Why It’s Taking Longer For Her To Reach Orgasm These Days

When it comes to giving your wife, girlfriend or lover a sex session that she won’t forget anytime soon, making her reach the Big O while you’re at it should definitely be on your checklist.

It’s a win-win situation really. Besides knocking her socks off while the both of you are getting busy in bed, the chances that your partner will become more excited to get down and dirty with you between the sheets will also be much higher.

However, you’re simply noticing that she’s taking a lot longer than usual to achieve orgasm during lovemaking these days. And that’s even when you’re already bringing your sexual A-game into play.

Now while this can be rather frustrating for you, it doesn’t mean that your days of giving your wife, girlfriend or lover an orgasm are over. Chances are you’re just making this simple mistake that can keep her from reaching the point of no return no matter how hard you try.

Let me explain what I mean…

Unlike guys that can get sexually aroused at the drop of a hat, a woman needs to be eased into it or else she won’t totally get ready for action in the bedroom.

It’s either she won’t be as wet down there for sexual penetration or perhaps her erogenous zones won’t be as sensitive to stimulation. This means that the sensations she will experience during lovemaking will feel more flat than amazing, which can make it quite tricky for her to reach her sexual peak and have an orgasm.

And the best way to really get your partner’s sexual arousal going is giving her an awesome foreplay session, which brings us to the mistake that I was telling you about earlier…

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, foreplay isn’t just about making a beeline to her erogenous zones like the nipples, clitoris, inner thighs as well as the back of the neck and giving them the stimulation that they deserve.

It also involves getting your partner’s mind going to coax the brain into activating the hormone-producing glands to churn out positive hormones, which are basically trigger the key changes in the body to get sexually aroused.

Moreover, the moment these positive hormones reach a certain level, the brain translates this as a sign to kick off her orgasmic responses and blow her mind with a surge of pleasurable sensations all at once.

Stimulating her mind isn’t that complicated to pull off as well. You can either start things up by sending her kinky text messages and emails or perhaps leave hidden notes in places where she’s sure to find them filled with graphic descriptions of what you’ll do to her when you two get alone.

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