This Mistake Can Ruin Her Orgasm

This Mistake Can Ruin Her Orgasm

I’m pretty sure that your top priority when you and your wife, girlfriend or lover are already getting at it in the bedroom is giving her a sex session that she won’t forget anytime soon. And making her achieve an orgasm or two is no doubt a key factor in pulling the whole thing off.

But the thing is I learned during my extensive research into the female sexuality that a lot of guys seem to overlook a rather simple mistake that can disrupt her chances of reaching the Big O no matter how hard you try.

So if you’re looking to really knock her socks off the next time things are heating up in bed, make sure you take note of this mistake that can easily ruin her orgasm…

Let’s kick things off with something that most men tend to ignore when it comes to lovemaking. Unlike guys that can get ready for action in the bedroom at the drop of a hat, women need to be eased into it to stimulate the brain into properly setting off the sexual arousal process.

This process involves a temporary surge in positive hormones like dopamine and oxytocin that trigger, which trigger prominent changes in a woman’s body when churned out in more than usual amounts at one time. Besides picking up her heart and breathing rates, these hormones also send her overall circulation into a brief overdrive.

This momentary boost in circulation not only intensifies the sensations she feels when you stimulate her erogenous zones like the breasts, inner thighs and back of the neck, but also activates her reproductive organs to activate their sexual function like they should.

And unless they function up to par, your partner’s chances of getting an orgasm as you go along will be very low. Now we’ve got that covered, let’s move on to the mistake that I was telling you about earlier…

The next time you find yourself getting rather intimate with your wife, girlfriend or lover, keep in mind not to get straight to the sexual action. Make it a point to start the ball rolling with a sensual massage and mental stimulation to set the right mood for her.

See, simply going straight to the action subconsciously gives your partner the notion to hurry things up, which means her sexual arousal won’t be set off like it should and she won’t experience the rather pleasurable effects that it can give her even if you’re already bringing your lovemaking A-game into play.

Now while this may sound quite simplistic, you’ll be surprised with the results when you keep this in mind on your next sex session.

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