Why She's Having Trouble Getting An Orgasm Nowadays

Why She’s Having Trouble Getting An Orgasm Nowadays

If you’re anything like most guys, I’m pretty sure that your ultimate goal during sex is giving your wife, girlfriend or lover an orgasm. However, you’re simply noticing that she is having a tough time reaching the Big O these days.

Now while this issue can be rather frustrating for you and your partner, this doesn’t mean that you’ve already lost your touch when it comes to giving her an orgasm. Chances are you’re just making a mistake that keeps her from really reaching the point of no return when the both of you are at it in the bedroom.

Let me explain what I mean…

At its simplest, activating a woman’s orgasmic responses is a process. It begins with the brain stimulating her hormone-producing glands to churn out positive hormones, which trigger key changes in her body to prep her up for sexual arousal.

Besides speeding up her pulse rate as well as making her breathe in a faster yet shallower manner, these hormones also direct a more than usual amount of blood to her erogenous zones like the breasts, clitoris, back of the neck and inner thighs among others.

And when these positive hormones reach a certain level, the brain detects this as a signal that it should already kick off her body’s orgasmic responses. You can think of it as the brain setting off a switch that releases various pleasurable sensations at once.

Now here’s the mistake that I was telling you about earlier…

The thing is I’ve learned during my extensive research into the male psychology that most guys seem to assume that they already know what their partners want in bed to really knock their socks off and achieve orgasm in the process.

Sure you may have an idea which erogenous zones and sexual techniques get your wife, girlfriend or lover going in the bedroom to boost her chances of getting an orgasm by now, but this doesn’t mean that you already know how to perfectly push her buttons to make her reach the Big O each time you’re at it in the bedroom.

Make it a point to always ask your partner what she wants during lovemaking to guarantee that you will make her come – even possibly again and again – as you go along. Come to think of it. Who really knows what makes your wife, girlfriend or lover feel good during sex?

It’s her, right?

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