This Is Definitely One Of The Biggest First Date Mistakes

This Is Definitely One Of The Biggest First Date Mistakes

I’m pretty sure that your top objective when you go out with a woman on a first date is to ace the whole thing as you go along. And if you pull it off, you won’t just boost your chances of making an emotional connection with your date, but also convince her easily to go out without you another time.

But the thing is unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying, there isn’t a magic formula that you can use to guarantee that you’ll ace a first date without a hitch.

Now while there are key factors that you should keep a close eye on like your grooming and choice of conversation topics to get you on the right track, I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that there is a simple mistake most guys seem to overlook that can ruin your chances of acing one.

There’s even a big possibility that you’re guilty of doing this mistake as well.

Why don’t you follow along and find out what this mistake is so you’ll have a higher chance of acing a first date the next time you’re going out with a woman?

Let’s start things off with the most basic goal that you need to achieve when it comes to first dates: making a woman feel relaxed and comfortable around you. See, unless your date feels this way, her brain won’t be able to activate the hormone-producing glands in her body to churn out positive hormones.

These hormones basically set off changes in your date’s body that make her become more sociable, patient, understanding and eager to exchange meaningful ideas with you when you engage her in a conversation.

And I think that you already have an idea how things will go during your first date if you manage to keep these positive hormones flowing in a woman’s body. Now here’s the mistake that I was telling you about earlier…

I’ve learned that one of the biggest mistakes that can disrupt the production and release of positive hormones is picking an ultra-fancy restaurant as the venue for your first date. Sure this sounds surprising right now, but it actually makes the woman you’re out with feel that she’s on a job interview instead of a date.

This is because women perceive first dates as an opportunity to make friends and expand their social network – and not being in a situation that they will feel awkward, unprepared and overwhelmed.

So if you’re looking to boost your chances of acing a first date soon, make it a point to choose a more outgoing venue for the whole thing. This is to keep things as friendly and welcoming for the woman you’re out with. You can even simply ask her where her usual haunt is and have your date there.

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