This Is The Reason Why You’re Popping Off Too Soon These Days
“I am experiencing premature ejaculation when my wife and I are at it in bed because I’m just getting older.”
This is an actual quote from a message I came across from an anonymous sender while checking out my inbox the other day. He even adds that he was already anticipating to go through this sexual issue when he reached 40.
Our email sender also shares that he won’t hesitate to get his hands on artificial products like creams, gels and pills that are designed to help men last longer during lovemaking sooner or later since he believes that things are just going to get worse from here on out.
Now while these products may offer a quick fix to the problem, they can also put you at risk of other issues in the long run.
But the thing is age doesn’t have anything to do with your ability to last for as long as you can when things are getting hot in the bedroom. I know this sounds rather surprising right now, but you will find out more when you follow along…
See, the brain basically oversees when to activate your body’s orgasmic and ejaculatory responses. It does this by measuring the amount of positive hormones like dopamine and oxytocin that are churned out in your system when you are sexually aroused.
Now while these positive hormones are usually let loose as soon as the brain detects that you and your wife, girlfriend or lover are already heating things up in bed, their levels will just keep on rising as you go along.
And when they reach a certain level or what they call in the scientific field as the “sexual peak,” the brain translates this as a signal to kick off the body’s orgasmic and ejaculatory responses, which means you’re going to reach the Big O and come.
What’s really interesting is I learned during my extensive research into the male sexuality that this process is not affected by age. It’s pretty much the same no matter how old you are and the key factors that influence the whole thing don’t change, too.
These include the pace and rhythm of your thrusts, how relaxed you are while at it as well as the frequency and length of your application of oral sex techniques. As long as you keep these factors in mind when you’re doing the deed with your wife, girlfriend or lover, you’re going to be in the clear when it comes to premature ejaculation.