A Mistake That Can Sap The Excitement Of Foreplay

A Mistake That Can Sap The Excitement Of Foreplay

Having an awesome foreplay session in your checklist is a must if you’re looking to give your wife, girlfriend or lover a bout of sex that she won’t be forgetting anytime soon. Besides helping your partner prep up for action in the bedroom, it will also make the sensations she will experience more intense and pleasurable as you go along in the process.

But the thing is there’s a mistake a lot of guys seem to overlook that can easily sap away the excitement of foreplay. And there is even a chance that you’re guilty of doing this one as well. Let me explain what I mean…

See, anticipation is one of the key factors that can get a woman’s sexual arousal going. It is one of the primary stimuli that her brain uses as a gauge to activate the hormone-producing glands to churn out positive hormones and set off changes in her body to get her ready for lovemaking.

The more a woman anticipates the pleasurable sensations that she’s going to experience in bed, the more powerful her sexual arousal becomes. Apart from making it easier to give your wife, girlfriend or lover an orgasm or two while you’re at it, every stimulation technique you’ll do is going to feel mind-blowing for her.

And this is definitely a win-win situation for you, don’t you think? Now here’s the mistake that I was telling you about earlier…

Anticipation is basically an emotion that is triggered because of being excited to experience something, but you don’t have an idea how or when it will happen. Tipping off your partner what erogenous zone you’re going to pleasure and how you’re going to do it will just take away her this feeling.

(However, you’re in the clear if you are doing this to deliberately trick her during foreplay, though.)

Besides having a significant effect to her sexual arousal, it will also make even your best foreplay techniques rather flat and boring. This is because she will already have a mental picture of the sensations she will feel even if you’re already bringing your A-game into play.

And that’s even if you’re doing the stuff she loves when you’re stimulating her favorite erogenous zones like the clitoris or breasts.

Make it a point to keep your foreplay moves secret to your wife, girlfriend or lover when things are already getting hot in the bedroom. The more she doesn’t know, the more she will enjoy the whole thing.


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