Are You Making This Orgasm-Sapping Mistake?

Are You Making This Orgasm-Sapping Mistake?

Chances are giving your wife, girlfriend or lover a sex session she won’t forget anytime soon is no doubt your top priority when things are getting hot in bed. And the best way to do just that is giving her an orgasm or two while you’re at it.

However, you’re simply noticing that your partner doesn’t seem to reach the point of no return during lovemaking these days. And that’s even if you’re already bringing your best sex techniques into play while the action is going on.

This doesn’t mean that you’ve already lost your touch when it comes to making your wife, girlfriend or lover achieve orgasms in the bedroom though. There’s a big possibility that you’re simply making a mistake that prevents her from really reaching the Big O during lovemaking.

Let me explain what I mean…

See, a process gets kicked off in the body as soon as the brain detects that you and your partner are already at it in bed.

Now while this process is much too complicated to explain in detail, it basically involves the brain stimulating the hormone-producing glands to produce and release specific positive hormones like dopamine and oxytocin.

These positive hormones trigger key changes in your partner’s body to prepare it for lovemaking like increasing her heart and breathing rates as well as temporarily boosting her circulation to get her erogenous zones going for produce pleasurable sensations when stimulated.

And the more of these hormones are churned out, the more awesome the sexual experience will be for your wife, girlfriend or lover.

What’s even more interesting is the brain uses them to gauge when to activate her orgasmic responses as you go along. As soon as they reach a certain level, she achieves an orgasm and the process can be repeated from the start.

Now here’s the mistake that I was telling you about earlier…

A lot of men tend to forget appreciating their partners and the things that they do during sex. And this might be the mistake that you’re making that keeps your wife, girlfriend or lover from reaching the Big O in the bedroom.

This is because your partner will think that she’s not as attractive to you like she used to or perhaps pleasing you in bed like she should.

Sure this sounds rather surprising, but the lack of appreciation promotes the release of negative hormones in a woman’s body that do exactly the opposite of their positive counterparts. She’ll just end up feeling anxious and impatient, which is definitely going to make her sexual arousal level dip down before you know it.

Simply telling her how great she looks in bed or verbally expressing your pleasure while at it will already do the trick.

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