A Mistake That Can Cost You A Second Date

A Mistake That Can Cost You A Second Date

I’m pretty sure that the top item in your checklist when you’re taking out a woman for the first time is convincing her to go on another date with you as you go along. And no matter what so-called “dating gurus” are saying, pulling off just that isn’t as easy as it sounds.

Sure you may have already heard that using certain words and “alpha male” gestures as well as dressing up in loud clothes are supposedly going to have a positive effect on a woman during a first date, but they’re just going to lead to the opposite.

Come to think. If you were to put yourself in your date’s shoes, would you enjoy going out with some guy who is acting very self-important with tacky clothes on? Well, there’s your answer.

But the thing is I’ve learned a rather simple mistake that can easily ruin your chances of convincing a woman to go a second date with you even if you’ve tried really hard to make the first one as amazing and enjoyable for her as you can.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

Chances are establishing an emotional connection with a woman is the first thing that drove you to take her out on a first date. This may be because of physical attraction or some other attribute that you really like about her.

But the thing is there’s a very big chance that a woman has agreed to go out with you not because she’s got something romantic in mind, but she’s simply looking to extend her social network. In simpler terms, she just wants to make friends.

And you can already have an idea of what will happen when you try to go all out with your romantic charms right on the first date. Like intentionally dropping hints – no matter how subtle – about how you two could be a great couple or perhaps discussing the “future” of your relationship.

Besides the possibility of her being really weirded out, the woman you’re on a first date with is also going to get a surge of stress hormones that will make her want to get out of there as soon as she can.

Now that’s really going to make scoring a second date quite difficult, don’t you think?

So the next time you’re on a first date, make it a point to choose your conversational topics very carefully. Keep in mind to go for trivial stuff like the name of her very first pet or perhaps what her favorite comfort food is. You’ll be surprised how much easier it will be to hit it off with your date this way.

(And always remember to listen intently to her while you’re at it, too.)

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