The Top Cunnilingus Mistake That You Should Avoid

The Top Cunnilingus Mistake That You Should Avoid

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are you’ve got oral sex in your checklist when you and your lover are already heating things up in the bedroom. Come to think of it. Cunnilingus is no doubt one of the best sexual techniques that help boost your chances of making her achieve orgasm.

However, there’s a big chance that you’re probably making a mistake when you go down on your partner that can easily prevent her from reaching the Big O. Make sure you follow along to find out what this mistake is to really take your cunnilingus skills up a notch…

During my extensive research into the female sexuality, I’ve learned that mental cues play a key role when it comes to activating a woman’s orgasmic response during lovemaking. And this also includes oral sex.

Sure it sounds a bit technical, but it basically means that you can use encouraging words to make your lover come when you explore south of her border. This is because her brain will find it easier to stimulate the endocrine glands to produce and release feel-good hormones, which set off the effects in the body that lead to an orgasm.

The more of these hormones are churned out in her system, the easier it will be for her to have an orgasm when you go down on her. Now that we’ve already established the connection between encouraging words and feel-good hormones, here’s the mistake that I was telling you about earlier…

And it’s overdoing the whole thing.

See, no matter how sincere or encouraging your words may be when you’re getting in action during oral sex, repeating them incessantly is just going to have a different effect on your lover. Instead of making her brain stimulate the endocrine glands to churn out feel-good hormones, they’re just going to let loose their negative counterparts.

Besides disrupting the whole sexual arousal process, not mentioning that your partner will find it rather difficult to enjoy cunnilingus, she will also end up feeling impatient and anxious in the process, which will only keep her from getting an orgasm even if you’re already bringing your A-game into play.

I guess you already have an idea of how your oral sex session will turn out when this happens, right? Just keep in mind to avoid repeating your encouraging words more than you need to while you’re at it and you’re surely good to go.


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