Why She's Not Convinced To Go Out With You Again

Why She’s Not Convinced To Go Out With You Again

If you’re anything like most men, chances are convincing a woman to go out with you again is definitely the top item in your dating checklist. However, making her say yes to a second date isn’t as easy as what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” claim.

And I’m pretty sure that you’ve come across a lot of these supposedly “surefire tips” already. Besides the one about putting on loud clothes to really get a woman’s complete attention, there’s also the tip about acting rather arrogant so you’ll make her feel that you’re the alpha male.

But the thing is that following these tips will just lead to disaster even before your date really began. Put yourself in a woman’s shoes for a moment. If your date is terribly dressed and acts really annoying, would you still be that eager to go out with him a second time?

Well, there’s your answer.

Moreover, making a woman say yes to a second date is also much more than looking your best and picking a nice place. In fact, there is one key element that a lot of guys seem to overlook when it comes to scoring date number two.

And this is spending too much time talking about yourself. I know this sounds a bit surprising right now, but you’ll find out more when you follow along…

If you’ve been following AdviceForHim.com for a while now, you’ve probably come across my post about how women see first dates as an opportunity to expand their social network. In short, they showed up because they want to make new friends.

During my extensive research into the female psychology, I’ve learned that one key attribute that women like in a guy they’re going out with is being interested in them as a person. And this means being curious about what they do, the stuff they like as well as their personal interests.

Besides promoting rapport between the two of you by having an idea of what your common denominators are, it would also make it easier for you to build trust with her because she won’t find it tricky to open herself up to you in the process.

Sure this may sound rather complicated right now, but doing this is really simple. Here’s one simple way of pulling this off…

Tell your date something about yourself, like the books and movies you like or perhaps the musical genres you’re into. Then ask her the similar question. Just remember to keep things as trivial and simple while you’re at it, too.

Sure this may sound simplistic, but you’re definitely going to get some interesting things about her that you can use to your advantage to dazzle her as you go along. And when you play your cards right, getting that second date isn’t going to be that tricky anymore.



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