You're In Danger Of Getting Friendzoned When You Do This

You’re In Danger Of Getting Friendzoned When You Do This

As a guy, one of the worst situations you can find yourself in is getting friendzoned by a woman you’ve always had your eyes on for a long time. And what makes the whole thing even more terrible is every man is prone to falling into this trap without even having the slightest clue.

However, I’ve learned a key factor that makes you extremely vulnerable to getting friendzoned during my extensive research into the female psychology and I’m sure that you’ll also find this rather interesting as well.

Let me explain what I mean…

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, getting friendzoned isn’t something that just happens. Getting stuck in what relationship researchers call “platonic purgatory” is actually the result of events, decisions and choices you go for as you build a relationship with a woman.

And one of the biggest reasons why some guys tend to fall into the friendzone trap is being too nice to a woman. I know this sounds rather surprising right now, but you’ll find out more when you follow along…

Now while being nice is essential when it comes to establishing a relationship with a woman, overdoing it already gives her the notion that you’re simply trying too hard to impress her. Besides making her think that you’re a chump, you’re also putting yourself at risk of being taken advantage of in the process.

Don’t get me wrong, but being a nice guy is important to make a woman like you and build a potential romantic relationship with her as you go along. However, if you’re always willing to buy her stuff, take her to the movies, drive her anywhere she wants and bring her pizza each time she gives you a ring, it basically makes her think that you’re a sucker.

And that isn’t an attribute women really like in guys. Sure she may see you as a lovable person, but that is quite different from a man who she can be in love with. That pretty much gives you an idea of how your chances of having a romantic relationship with her will go.

I’m not saying that you should start acting pompous and aggressive – or “alpha male” – like so-called dating gurus are suggesting. It will only lead to disaster sooner or later.

(Here’s a surefire way of breaking free from the friendzone while we’re at it.)

Instead, you should limit your availability to her. Apart from being a simple technique to make her miss you, this also gives you an additional air of mystery that women really get excited about.


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