Why She Isn't Excited For Cunnilingus These Days

Why She Isn’t Excited For Cunnilingus These Days

Oral sex is no doubt on your checklist if you’re looking to really give your wife, girlfriend or lover an experience in the bedroom that she won’t forget anytime soon. However, you’re simply noticing that she’s not that excited anymore when you go down on her these days.

Unlike what a lot of so-called “sex gurus” are saying though, this doesn’t mean that you’ve already lost your touch when it comes to pleasuring your partner south of her border. Chances are you’re just making a simple mistake that’s preventing her from really enjoying oral sex.

Let me explain what I mean…

See, the body produces a lot of pleasurable sensations as soon as the brain stimulates the endocrine glands to churn out feel-good hormones like oxytocin and dopamine. Now while these hormones are always present in the system, they tend to surge during sexual arousal.

As long as these feel-good hormones keep on coming when you’re working your magic on your wife, girlfriend or lover in bed, she’s sure to experience the sexual satisfaction that she wants when you’re at it.

Interestingly, this also covers oral sex.

But the thing is that the brain tends to “remember” the sexual techniques you use when you go down on your partner. When it thinks that you’re using the same ones over and over, chances are the brain will not stimulate the endocrine glands to produce and release the ideal amounts of feel-good hormones during the act.

And the whole thing will just feel flat for your wife, girlfriend or lover, which is definitely going to make it really tricky for you to make her achieve orgasm no matter how hard you try when you’re busy exploring south of her border.

Now let’s discuss the oral sex mistake that I’ve emphasized earlier…

Although you may already know how she likes to be stimulated down there, sticking with the same moves just every time you get down to business will simply make the stimulation you do feel dull. This is because the brain will already know what will happen next, which hampers the continuous release of oxytocin, dopamine and other feel-good hormones.

Now while this may sound complicated at first, it really isn’t that tricky to pull off.

You just have to mix things up when you pleasure her orally. Besides adding a new style of stimulation when you’re already getting busy on her down there, pleasuring other erogenous zones while you’re at it is also a smart idea to always knock her socks off during oral sex.


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