A First Date Essential You Should Always Keep In Mind

A First Date Essential You Should Always Keep In Mind

If you’re anything like most guys, acing a first date is definitely the top item in your checklist when you go out with a woman. But the thing is pulling the whole thing off is more than just picking a nice venue and looking your best.

Make sure you follow along to learn a first date essential that will surely boost your chances of scoring the next one easily…

I’m pretty sure that your idea of making a date amazing – especially if it’s the first time – for a woman includes keeping a close eye on your grooming, picking a nice place to take her to as well as arranging a few key details to really wow her on the big day (or night).

Now while these factors can no doubt significantly affect your chances of making a good impression on the woman you’re out with, there’s one more thing that you need to keep in mind or else all your efforts won’t hit their mark.

And this is making sure that you’ll keep the vibe of your first date to be as friendly as you can. Sure this sounds rather simplistic, but it will all make sense when you read on…

See, during my extensive research into the female psychology, I learned that women considered first dates purely as an opportunity to expand their social network. To put it simply, your date is mostly there because she wants to make friends.

As a typical guy myself, I’m betting that you’re on a first date for a different reason, right? You’re primarily going out with a woman because you are interested in her and you’d like to establish a more intimate relationship along the way.

Although there isn’t anything wrong with this difference in mindset between you and your date, being obvious with your intentions while you two are at it is just going to make her feel awkward and uncomfortable.

When this happens, her body starts to churn out stress hormones, which make her feel rather anxious, impatient and in a hurry to be someplace else.  And this simply means that there isn’t going to be a second date anytime soon – or ever.

So the next time you’re taking out a woman for the very first time, keep in mind that being friendly is the way to go. (And while we’re on the subject, you also have to make listening intently to your date a priority.)

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