Forgetting To Do This Can Keep Her From Orgasming

Forgetting To Do This Can Keep Her From Orgasming

While browsing through my inbox this morning, I stumbled upon a question from JM who asks why he can’t seem to make his girlfriend achieve orgasm anymore when they’re at it in the bedroom these days.

JM admits that this issue is not just significantly sapping his confidence levels, but also making him feel really anxious each time things start getting hot in bed. And it’s already affecting his sexual performance as well.

Besides finding it rather tricky to get rock hard on demand, he also experiences premature ejaculation more often. JM even reveals that he’s is already thinking about getting his hands on pills, creams and other artificial stuff to “fix” this problem.

JM, if you’re reading this, there’s no need to do just that. I think I’ve already got an idea what prevents your girlfriend from reaching the Big O and I’m going to walk you through how to correct this sexual issue.

Let me explain what I mean…

One of the most interesting things that I’ve learned during my extensive research into the male psychology is that a lot of guys mistakenly think that they’ve already got the hang of the sexual preferences of their wives, girlfriends and lovers once they make them come during lovemaking.

Most men tend to think that since they managed to make their partners reach the point of no return once, they develop this mindset that they will able to do it again and again already. If you’re anything like most guys, you’ve probably thought of this, too.

However, the problem is a woman’s sexual preferences – everything from foreplay, oral sex to the main thrusting action and everything in between – are very likely to change from time to time. This simply means that what your wife, girlfriend or lover likes in the bedroom today would be different tomorrow and so on.

There is a very big possibility that the sexual techniques you brought into play that made your partner reach orgasm the last time you had a lovemaking session won’t be that effective on her in the future.

Now here’s how you can make sure that your wife, girlfriend or lover will really achieve orgasm when you two are already at it in bed…

Ask her to guide you through your lovemaking session.

Sure this sounds simplistic, but you’re sure to only do the things that she likes and wants to experience during sex. And this means she will have the sexual satisfaction she wants each and every time, which will easily lead to an explosive orgasm (or two) sooner or later.

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