This Is What Makes You A Lousy Date

This Is What Makes You A Lousy Date

If you’re anything like most men, you probably think that first dates are one of the most challenging experiences you’ll ever go through. Unlike other social activities that you seem to get the hang of sooner or later, going out on a first date is something that’s unpredictable every single time you do it.

Now while keeping an eye on your grooming and knowing how to establish an emotional connection with the woman you’re out with are key factors to easily score a second date, there is one other dating element that a lot of guys seem to overlook that can ruin the whole thing in no time.

And there’s even a big chance that you’re overlooking this one yourself and it’s inadvertently giving the woman you’re out with the notion that you are a lousy date. Make sure you follow along to find out what this dating element is and boost your chances of really making a good impression on your next first date…

While checking out a new psychology journal at the local library the other day, I learned that the brain becomes extremely impressionable during certain situations, especially when there is a bit of socializing involved.

And first dates fit into these types of situations easily.

What’s really interesting is that the brain is wired to pattern after the mindset that you have during that situation and even sets off changes in the body to realize the same.

I know this sounds rather complicated right now, but it basically means that if you think that you’re going to be a lousy date, your brain will interpret this as a command and will trigger unpleasant changes sooner or later that will really turn you into one.

Say you repeatedly think that you won’t ace a date because the woman you’re out with is out of your league. This encourages the brain to stimulate the endocrine glands to churn out stress hormones that will make you feel extremely uncomfortable, unable to concentrate properly, appear snobbish and talk funny.

And these will surely keep you from acing your date, right?

Fixing this problem isn’t as technical as you think as well. You just have to think positive, like the best case scenario you can ever visualize. For example, you can picture out that you’re engaged in a meaningful conversation with her and you two are having a great time.

Sure this may sound rather simplistic, but you’ll be surprised with the results when you try this the next time you’re going out on a first date.


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