Are You Making This Mistake That Can Ruin Foreplay For Her?

Are You Making This Mistake That Can Ruin Foreplay For Her?

If you’ve been following for a while now, you probably already know the importance of getting an awesome foreplay session going to really prep up a woman for lovemaking.

And one the ways that you can make foreplay amazing for your partner is exciting her mentally using sexy talk, which stimulates her brain to keep on churning out feel-good hormones that won’t just take her sexual arousal off the charts, but also make it easier for her to achieve an orgasm.

But the thing is a lot of men seem to overlook a simple mistake that can make even the sexiest sexy talk flat for women or perhaps may even totally ruin their mood for heating things up in the bedroom.

Let me explain what I mean…

However, before I discuss this more in detail, let me give you a quick rundown on what happens inside a woman’s body during sexual arousal so you will understand the whole thing better.

As soon as the brain detects that you and your wife, girlfriend or lover are already at it in bed, it immediately fires up the endocrine system to start doing what they do best. And this is producing and releasing unique types of feel-good hormones that set off key changes in her body.

Besides making your partner’s skin temporarily extra sensitive, especially in and around the erogenous zones like the breasts, inner thighs, back of the neck and the genitals, these hormones also set off an internal timer that kicks off her orgasmic response when it reached a specific period.

Interestingly, the more of these feel-good hormones are circulating in her body, the easier and faster it will be for a woman to reach the Big O. And like I’ve emphasized earlier, using sexy talk is one way to pull this off.

But I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female sexuality that a woman’s brain can only process sexy talk if it’s spoken clearly and gently. Talking too fast or overdoing the whole thing will already make it difficult for her brain to sort out the messages you’re trying to get across.

Other red flags that you should avoid while at it are using clichéd movie or porn stuff and pet names as well as casually chatting about non-sexual stuff.

And when this happens, there is a very big possibility that your wife’s, girlfriend’s or lover’s brain will take a break directing the things that should happen inside her body to keep her sexual arousal going. This just means that your partner is either going to lose a bit of her sexual steam or she will get turned off completely.

So if you’re looking to really wow her during foreplay with sexy talk, make it a point to say each and every word meaningfully and you’re good to go.

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