This Mistake Can Get You Stuck In The Friend Zone

This Mistake Can Get You Stuck In The Friend Zone

While checking out my inbox this morning, I came across a very interesting message from Greg, who just began to follow my posts here in AdviceForHim.com.

Greg shares that he’s already gone out on a few dates with a woman he really likes for a while now, but he still can’t figure out if things are already going well between them or if he’s already being friend zoned.

Greg also adds that he texts him a lot, brings her gifts from time to time, hangs out with her at the local watering hole often and even accompanied her to a game or two. However, he points out that nothing romantic still happened between them, save for some friendly hugs and a peck on the cheek.

As I see it, Greg is already on the verge of being friend zoned just because of one simple mistake that he’s making. And now while I don’t mean any offense by saying this, there’s also a chance that the same thing is the reason why you simply can’t seem to take your relationship with a woman to a higher level.

Let me explain what I mean…

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, making a woman see you more as a love interest rather than a friend isn’t about being readily available for her as much as you can. This will just give her the notion that you’re her go-to guy when she feels bored or has nobody to vent to when she has a problem.

And there is also a big possibility that you’re not the only guy who’s doing these things for her.

Come to think of it. Do you honestly think that listening to her problems and curing her boredom is the job of a potential boyfriend? Well, I guess you know the answer by now. But the thing is there may still be a chance to swing the odds in your favor by doing this simple tip…

Make her miss you. I know this sounds crazy right now, but you’ll learn why this is crucial if you’re looking to take your relationship with a woman up a notch when you follow along.

See, making a woman feel your absence will let her realize how much she needs you in her life. I’m not saying that you totally stop communicating or hanging out with her. You just have to tone things down a bit.

Don’t be as available for her like you used to. Send her fewer texts as before. Don’t hang out with her as often as you’d normally do. Stop making her feel that you’re just a go-to guy when she’s bored.

As a bonus, you will also easily find out if she’s into you as well since chances are if she likes you, she will be the one asking you first why you’re not spending as much time together. How’s that for two for two?


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