The Biggest Reason Why You Miss Out On A Second Date

The Biggest Reason Why You Miss Out On A Second Date

March 6, 2015  |  Dating Advice, Success Principles

I’m really disappointed with all the tips that these so-called “dating gurus” are sharing these days.

Besides recommending that guys need to wear loud clothes when taking a woman out to really get her attention, they also suggest that acting like a jerk during a first date also makes her feel that she’s with the alpha male.

Come to think of it. If you’re a woman out on a first date with a guy dressed in loud clothes who treats you badly, would still want to go out with him for another time? Well, I think the answer is not that tricky to figure out.

However, there’s a simple mistake that a lot men tend to overlook that can cost them a second date. And there is even a chance that this dating slip-up is the biggest reason why you’re finding it difficult to convince a woman to go out with you again.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

If you’ve been following for a while now, you’ve probably already come across my posts that emphasize the key pointers you need to keep in mind when it comes to making a good impression on a first date.

Now while I’ve stressed that these pointers aren’t surefire deals when you have them in your first date checklist, they can help you increase your chances of acing it so it won’t be that difficult to convince a woman to go out with you again.

Besides keeping a close eye on your grooming and listening to your date intently when you’re engaged in a meaningful conversation, the venue you’ll go for is also an important factor in making the experience awesome for her.

But the thing is I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that women generally view first dates as a friendly event and not as something romantic in nature.

And you can easily ruin your chances at convincing a woman to say yes to a second date if you make her feel that you’re there for another reason save for just socializing.

Sure the main reason you asked a woman out is you are attracted to her, but rushing things no matter how much time you’ve spent on your grooming, how intently you’re listening to her or where you’re having your date just isn’t going to cut it.

Make it a point to keep things friendly during a first date. Focus the things you’ll do and your conversation on knowing the woman you’re out with better. Do this so you can establish an emotional connection with her.

Keep in mind to hold your horses on a first date and you’re sure to be on the right track.

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