How You Can Ruin A Date Almost Instantly

How You Can Ruin A Date Almost Instantly

I was browsing a few blogs written by so-called “dating gurus” the other day and got really disappointed with the stuff they were saying.

And I’d like to point out one of the worst things that upset me because instead of helping you ace a date, it will easily ruin your chances of convincing a woman to go out with you again. Let me explain what I mean…

According to a certain guy, the best way to impress a woman during a date is establishing that you’re the alpha male. Besides wearing loud and elaborate clothing to catch her attention right off the bat, you should also act like you don’t care at all.

He adds that this will simply make a woman feel that you are the “hottest item in the dating scene” and will guarantee your chances of acing the whole thing in no time. However, I’ve learned something during my extensive research into the female psychology that will easily refute this.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

Now while I have emphasized in a previous post that women are visual creatures that tend to make their first impression on a guy they’re out on a date with based on their looks, how they feel around him also plays a key role in making the whole thing a success.

This is because the brain stimulates the endocrine glands to produce and release two very specific types of hormones that can easily make or break your chances of acing a date depending on how a woman feels when she is with you.

The first one is the feel-good hormones, which as their name implies, makes a woman feel very relaxed and comfortable during a date. Besides making her feel more sociable, a woman will also find it easier to establish a connection with a guy when she experiences a surge of these hormones inside her body.

The second type is the stress hormones and you can easily guess what these can do when they get churned out in a woman’s system. They will only make your date feel reserved, annoyed and can’t wait to be somewhere else.

What’s really interesting is the biggest factor that pushes the brain to let loose stress hormones almost immediately is when a woman feels that the guy she’s on a date with doesn’t seem to be interested in her at all…which is exactly the opposite of what that certain “dating guru” says. Do you see the connection now?

And come to think of it. If you were to put yourself in your date’s place, would you like to go out with a guy who dresses funny and treats you like trash? Well, that will already give you a preview of how the date will turn out.

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