Why She's Hesitant To Try Anal Sex

Why She’s Hesitant To Try Anal Sex

I’m pretty sure that anal sex is one of the things that you’ve always wanted to try in the bedroom with your lover. Now while you can’t wait to have a go at it, the only thing that is stopping you is your lover isn’t that hot about the idea of doing it in the backdoor.

However, this doesn’t mean that you should already give up on trying to convince your lover to give anal sex a try. Chances are you’re just forgetting to do something that prevents her from really getting into the mood for anal sex.

However, before I explain this to you in detail, let me give you a quick rundown on what happens inside a woman’s body during sexual arousal to help you understand the whole thing better…

As soon as the brain detects that you and your lover are already heating things up bed, it activates the endocrine system to start producing and releasing certain mood-altering hormones to kick off her sexual arousal.

Besides making your partner’s skin extra sensitive, especially in and around her erogenous zones like the inner thighs, nipples, clitoris and the back of the neck, these hormones also make the heart pump blood faster to direct a more than usual amount of blood flow to her pelvic region to get her sexual organs going.

Interestingly, there is one other very significant effect that these mood-altering hormones can set off when they get released. If a woman’s body lets loose a lot of them during foreplay, she becomes so sexually aroused that her inhibitions get very low.

When this happens, convincing her to try anal sex won’t be that tricky.

But the problem is that you can’t just ask your lover to amp up her production of hormones for this to take place. You have to do something that a lot of guys tend to overlook when things get hot in the bedroom…

And this is asking your lover to call the shots during sex. I know this sounds surprising right now, but I’m sure you will keep in mind to let your partner direct the action on your next lovemaking session when you find out how this will affect her.

When you ask your lover to take charge in bed, her brain translates this as a form of pleasure boost and picks up her production of mood-altering hormones. This significantly lowers her sexual inhibitions, which makes her more adventurous during lovemaking.

Why not try this technique the next time you and your partner are heating things up in the bedroom to raise your chances of convincing her to try anal sex?


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