How To Excite Your Lover In Bed Faster

How To Excite Your Lover In Bed Faster

So here’s the situation…

You’re noticing that it’s taking longer and longer for you to get your lover going in the bedroom these days. And this is even when you’re already pulling all the stops during foreplay and doing everything that normally made your partner wild in bed.

Now while this may be very frustrating for you, it doesn’t mean that you’ve already lost your touch when it comes to prepping up your lover for sex. Chances are you’re just overlooking a very simple foreplay mistake that can prevent her from channeling her inner vixen sooner than usual.

And this mistake is allowing her to get distracted when you two are already getting busy in bed.

Let me explain what I mean…

While checking out a new psychology journal at the local library the other day, I discovered that a woman’s brain finds it rather tricky to fire up the endocrine glands to let loose feel-good hormones that are needed to get her sexually aroused when she is distracted.

What makes the whole thing really interesting is it goes both ways. Your partner will find it hard to get sexually aroused when she is distracted and she’ll also find it tricky to get going in bed again if she gets distracted in the middle of the action.

This is because her brain translates every distraction as a potential fight or flight experience. It will still stimulate the endocrine glands to release hormones sooner or later though, but they will be the wrong ones.

Instead of prepping up your lover in bed, these hormones will only make her feel anxious, impatient and annoyed, which are definitely not the emotions you’re looking for when you are trying to get her sexually aroused.

The good thing is the psychology journal I was browsing specifically pointed out the biggest factor that can make your lover really distracted during foreplay. And this is her mobile phone. When that thing makes even the slightest beep, you’re definitely going to have problems getting your partner going in bed.

There are two simple ways you can keep her from being distracted by her phone though.

It’s either you deliberately ask her to switch off her phone before you two get busy in the bedroom or perhaps you start the action away from it. You can also show her that you’re putting your phone away while at it to make her feel that she’s not on the losing end of the deal.

(Here’s also one other pointer  you need to keep in mind that helps boost a woman’s sexual mood.)

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