Keep This In Mind The Next Time You're Trying To Warm Her Up

Keep This In Mind The Next Time You’re Trying To Warm Her Up

If you’re anything like most guys, making sure you warm up your lover in the bedroom properly is one of the top things in your sexual checklist.  However, there is one foreplay move a lot of men do that’s actually making it difficult for their partners to get going for sex.

Make sure you follow along to find out what this mistake is…

Now while I don’t mean this as something offensive, there is a very big possibility that you’re doing a big mistake each time you are trying to prep up your lover for a sex session. And this mistake is immediately stimulating her clitoris the moment you get the chance.

I know this sounds a bit surprising since you normally see this move in almost every porn flick you’ve ever watched, but it actually makes your lover feel uncomfortable to the point of being sore rather than giving her sexual pleasure.

Let me explain what I mean…

As soon as your partner’s brain detects that you two are already getting at it in bed, it fires up the endocrine system to let loose certain mood-altering hormones that trigger key changes in her body.

Besides spiking up your lover’s heart rate and making her breathe faster, these hormones also temporarily take the sensitivity of her skin, especially in and around her erogenous zones, off the charts.

Perhaps the most significant effect of these mood-altering hormones is directing a more than usual amount of blood to her pelvic region where most of it is absorbed by her reproductive organs. This is what makes your lover’s vagina moist and clitoris ready for stimulation.

However, compared to guys whose primary sign of sexual arousal is an erect penis, it doesn’t work that way when it comes to women. It takes a longer time for them to get ready down there, too, unlike men that can rise up to the occasion at the drop of a hat.

So simply making a beeline for her clitoris as soon as the action in the bedroom starts will only make her feel uncomfortable. And that’s even if you’re already putting your A-game to pleasure her down there.

Make sure you keep this in mind the next time you’re looking to really warm up your lover for a sex session. Going straight to her clitoris during foreplay may seem like a good idea to get her freak on, but it’s actually one of the biggest mistakes you will ever make.

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