What To Do When She Is Finding It Tricky To Get Wet

What To Do When She Is Finding It Tricky To Get Wet

So here’s the situation…

You’re doing everything you can to get things hot in the bedroom, but your lover is simply finding it rather difficult to get wet down there. And you thought she’s going to get her juices flowing once you dish out your A-game.

Besides making you feel quite frustrated, this is also one of the biggest confidence sappers when it comes to sex.

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think though, this doesn’t mean that you’re already losing your touch when warming up your partner for lovemaking is concerned. Chances are you’re simply overlooking a very important factor in her sexual arousal.

Let me explain what I mean…

Most guys tend to believe that women only need physical stimulation to get sexually aroused. They think that simply working their magic on their lovers’ erogenous zones will make them get ready for sex each and every time.

However, I discovered something during my extensive research into the female sexuality that there’s another aspect that you need to take care of if you really want to prep up a woman in bed.

And this is stimulating her mentally. I know this sounds a bit surprising right now, but you’re sure going to include mental stimulation in your checklist the next time you’re feeling a bit frisky…

See, the brain is where sexual arousal happens. It is actually the biggest erogenous zone of all.

As soon as the brain detects that you and your partner are starting to get things hot in the bedroom, it activates the endocrine system to produce and release mood-altering hormones that set off changes in her body to prepare it for sex.

Now while giving your lover’s erogenous zones attention is one way to get her going for action in bed, she won’t be totally sexually aroused if her brain doesn’t think that you’ve stimulated it enough.

Sure the term “mental stimulation” may have a complicated ring to it, but it is simply a fancy description for sending your lover kinky text messages at work or perhaps calling her up unexpectedly and give her a preview of the things you’ll do to her when you two get alone in the bedroom.

This basically jump starts the brain to start making the endocrine system churn out mood-altering hormones even before you physically stimulate her body. And the best thing about mental stimulation is you can get really creative about it.

So the next time you’re planning to heat your partner up for a sex session, keep in mind to work her mind first before moving on to her other erogenous zones.


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