A Mistake That Can Cost You A Blowjob

A Mistake That Can Cost You A Blowjob

I’m pretty sure that getting a blowjob from your lover is one of the highlights of your sexual checklist. Who wouldn’t want to get some extra steamy oral action when things get hot in bed anyway?

However, you’re simply noticing that your partner isn’t too eager to go down on you anymore these days. No matter how hard you try during lovemaking, you just can’t seem to get her near south of your border any longer.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, this doesn’t mean your lover just straight up crossed off blowjobs off her list of things to do when the two of you get frisky in the bedroom. Chances are you’re just probably making a simple mistake that prevents her from really getting in the mood.

Let me explain what I mean…

During my extensive research into the female sexuality, I discovered that the changes that take place inside a woman’s body during sexual arousal temporarily dulls her mindset. This causes a sharp decline in her inhibitions, which allows her to eagerly do things that she’d normally say no to outside the bedroom.

Interestingly, this includes giving you a blowjob.

Now while you may have already made sure that you’ve prepped up nicely to guarantee that your lover will go down on you, like taking a really long shower and trimming your pubes, there is one thing most guys seem to overlook that can keep women from getting in the mood for oral sex.

And this mistake is rushing your partner to start the action down under.

See, a woman’s brain stimulates the endocrine glands to churn out feel-good hormones during sexual arousal. These hormones are the ones that make her less inhibited to get down and dirty during lovemaking.

However, something else happens inside your partner’s body when you start rushing her to give you a bout of oral sex. This makes her feel pressured and anxious, which forces her brain sooner or later to stimulate the endocrine glands to produce and release stress hormones.

When these stress hormones get in the picture, chances are she won’t be that eager to give oral sex a go. This is because they will cause a very sharp decline in her sexual arousal almost immediately.

Besides making her feel rather impatient and edgy, these stress hormones also disrupt the temporary dulling of the mindset that their feel-good counterparts set off, which can easily give her the notion that oral sex is disgusting.

And the odds that your lover will still be game enough to go down on you is definitely going to be nil when this happens.

So the next time you’re looking to get a blowjob from your partner, make it a point to take things slow and easy to avoid ruining her mood. Sure there’s a possibility that things will take longer than you expect, but it definitely beats missing out on a blowjob from your lover.


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