This Simple Tip Can Easily Help Dazzle Your Date
Sure you may have already come across a lot of dating pointers all this time, but I’ve stumbled upon one tip that may give you a whole new perspective on how to boost your chances of dazzling a woman when you take her out for the first time.
Let me explain what I mean…
While leafing through a new psychology journal at the local library over the weekend, I discovered that being on time means a great deal to your date. I know this sounds rather simplistic right now, but you’re sure to find out more when you follow along.
According to a research conducted by the Wilson-Herbert Psychological Institute, showing punctuality is more than just a way of scoring brownie points on a first date. It also helps convince a woman in a subconscious level that you’re a responsible guy.
Based from the data gathered from more than 300 participants, the researchers learned that unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” say, being late to a first date, no matter how fashionable you think it may be, is a total let-down for a woman.
And what’s really interesting is this outcome won’t change even if you’ve prepped up nicely for your date or perhaps picked a superb venue for the same.
This is because besides making a woman feel that you’re really not that interested in going out with her, it also invokes the impression that you’re simply a lousy date. Once she develops this mindset, it will be very tricky for you to fix the whole thing no matter how well you play your cards as you go along.
The researchers also emphasize that it doesn’t matter if you’re five or twenty minutes off schedule. If your date arrives before you, she will inevitably start thinking negative thoughts, which stimulate her body to produce and release stress hormones, which makes her feel impatient and anxious…
Well, you probably already know what will happen next. And this means no future dates will take place anytime soon as well.
However, the researchers add that this doesn’t apply to women. If your date is a few minutes late, simply be gracious about it. Apart from making your date feel that you’re genuinely interested to go out with her, it also gives her the notion that you’re a true gentleman.
How’s that for starting your date with a bang?
(Now here’s a really useful tip if you’re looking to easily build an emotional connection with the woman you’re out with.)