How You Can Make A First Date Amazing For Her
When it comes to first dates, I’m pretty sure you’d like to score as much brownie points as you can with the woman you’re out with so you can easily build up your chances of convincing her to go on a second one with you.
Although you probably already know that keeping a close eye on how you look and smell as well as listening intently to your date are key factors to boosting the odds in your favor, there is one thing a lot of guys mistakenly think that will help them pull it off.
And this is taking her to a really fancy place on your date. I know this sounds crazy right now, but you’ll find out more when you follow along…
Now don’t get me wrong.
I’m not saying that picking a classy place for your date’s venue is bad. It isn’t that tricky to imagine what will happen if you take a woman out on a first date to somewhere that’s plain shabby, too.
However, I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that going for a super luxurious place for your date raises the chances of triggering a negative effect on the woman you’re out with.
As it turns out, it makes her feel anxious.
See, a first date is supposed to be a friendly and casual occasion where you get to know a woman better. Besides learning the common ground you both share, you’ll also have the chance of finding out a few things about your date that can help you establish an emotional connection with her as you go along.
However, the “friendly and casual” part fizzles out when you choose a place that’s rather ultra-fancy.
This is because you’ll make your date feel that she’s on a job interview. Moreover, it will also lead to her thinking that she’s not appropriately dressed or perhaps she will unknowingly order something that is really pricey.
Instead of establishing an emotional connection with your date and increasing your chances of convincing her to go out again with you, she will only end up feeling nervous, irritated and impatient to get out of there.
And that’s definitely not the way you want the whole thing to play out, do you?
There’s one thing you can do that can easily prevent this from happening though.
You can simply ask her where she wants go during your date. Sure this may sound rather simplistic, but it really works. Apart from having a place where she feels really comfortable, you can also use this knowledge as an advantage to dazzle her even more in your future dates.