A Somewhat Unorthodox Way Of Making Her Feel Sexy During Foreplay

A Somewhat Unorthodox Way Of Making Her Feel Sexy During Foreplay

If you’ve been following AdviceForHim.com for a while now, you’ve probably come across my posts on how women need to be eased into lovemaking or else there’s a chance they won’t be ready for action in bed at all.

Unlike guys that can get in the mood for lovemaking at the drop of a hat, a woman’s sexual arousal has to be built up bit by bit. And if you’re anything like most men, I’m pretty sure that there was a time when you couldn’t seem to warm up your partner during foreplay no matter how hard you try.

But what if I told you that I learned a simple yet somewhat unorthodox trick that can help pick up the pace of your lover’s sexual arousal when you’re getting at it? Make sure you follow along to find out more…

Akin to men, a woman’s brain pretty much calls all the shots when it comes to getting her body ready for lovemaking.

Besides stimulating the endocrine glands to let loose mood-altering hormones that cause key changes in the system to begin sexual arousal, it also decides if a certain stimulation to a specific erogenous zone is pleasurable or not.

This means that unless the brain thinks that what you’re doing during foreplay is pleasurable, your lover won’t be feeling excited to go all the way anytime soon.

One mistake that a lot of men seem to overlook is doing the same techniques over and over during foreplay. This is because the brain becomes rather immune to the sensations these techniques give and make them feel rather flat or even uncomfortable as you go along.

Sure you may already know your lover’s favorite erogenous zones or perhaps how she wants them to be stimulated, but it doesn’t guarantee how quick she’ll get sexually aroused in the process. Or if your partner is going to be sexually aroused at all.

Well, if there’s just a way to trick her brain into feeling that all your moves are going to be pleasurable during foreplay…

Now here’s where the trick I told you about earlier gets in the picture. The next time you are trying to warm up your lover in bed, deliberately mislead her while at it.

Tell her that you’ll stimulate this erogenous zone, but you’re actually going to concentrate on another. Now while this sounds rather crazy, it works each time you do it because of a simple reason. This strategy catches her brain off-guard, making the stimulation you’ll do not just spur of the moment, but also very exciting and pleasurable.

Just don’t be too obvious which erogenous zone you will really stimulate and you’ll be surprised how much quicker your lover will get ready for action in bed.

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