So She's Not That Interested In Sex These Days

So She’s Not That Interested In Sex These Days

I’m pretty sure having a sex session with your wife or girlfriend is one of the activities that is a mainstay on your regular checklist…

However, you’re simply noticing that she’s not that up for action in the bedroom like she used to these days. And I think I know the reason why. Make sure you follow along to find out more.

But before I explain this to you in detail, let me give you a quick rundown on what happens inside a woman’s body during sexual arousal to help you understand things easier…

As soon as the brain detects that things are getting hot between you and your partner in bed, it immediately fires up the endocrine system to start churning out specific mood-altering hormones. These hormones set off key changes in a woman’s system to prep her up for lovemaking.

If you’ve been following for a while now, you probably know by now that these hormones not just spike up her blood pressure and breathing rate, they also take the sensitivity of her skin through the roof, which makes even the slightest touch or caress pleasurable.

And just imagine how amazing the sensations will be when you stimulate her erogenous zones like the nipples, clitoris, inner thighs, vagina as well as the back of the neck.

However, I discovered something during my extensive research into the female sexuality that may just give you an idea why her interest in sex is dipping nowadays, even if you unleash your A-game when the two of you are at it.

There is a very big possibility that her body isn’t producing as much oxytocin as it used to. Let me explain what I mean…

At its simplest, oxytocin is basically called the “love chemical,” so that already gives you an idea what it does to a woman’s body when it is let loose. Oxytocin is produced by the pituitary gland and plays a very significant role when it comes to sexual arousal.

Unless there is a sufficient amount of oxytocin released in your wife’s or girlfriend’s body, chances are she won’t be that interested in lovemaking no matter how hard you try warming her up between the sheets.

There’s no need to worry just yet though if she’s not that up for a sex session when you’re feeling rather frisky these days. What’s really interesting is there is a simple way to boost her oxytocin levels and make her more excited to get in action with you in the bedroom…

And this is hugging your wife or girlfriend more often. Not just brief embraces, too. You have to do them tighter and longer than usual. Plus points if you make as much skin contact as you can to really pump the whole thing up.

Sure this sounds a bit simplistic, but it’s one surefire way of bringing her oxytocin levels back up to ideal levels. How about trying this one later to easily help her get in the mood faster?

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