So You're Trying To Make Your Date Trust You...

So You’re Trying To Make Your Date Trust You…

I am really disappointed at what these so-called dating gurus tell men. I just don’t agree that there is something you can say or do that can easily make your date trust you instantly, which boosts your chances of convincing her to go out on a second date with you.

I just don’t think that using certain words while engaging a woman in discussion or perhaps wearing a particular outfit during a first date can help you pull it off. If you ask me, making your date establish trust with you is basically a process.

Let me explain what I mean…

During my extensive research into the female psychology, I learned that a woman tends to keep her guard up during a first date. If your date is anything like most women, she’s naturally going to be showing a rather reserved attitude when you go out for the very first time.

This is because a woman is basically spending most of her time sizing you up during a first date. And she can do this without saying a single word or her actions giving her away. Now while this may sound surprising, the woman you’re out with is already mentally calculating if she can trust you the moment your date begins.

In short, she’s already thinking about the difference between going out with you again or if the whole thing with you is just a one-time deal as soon as you pick her up at her place or perhaps help her sit down the moment you arrive at the venue.

Don’t get me wrong though. Now while wearing a nice attire and having the right topics for discussion are key factors when it comes to establishing trust with your date, there is no magic word or fashion secret that can help you get the job done.

As I said earlier, it’s more of a process and not some magic bullet like many so-called dating gurus say.

And the first step to get this process going is making the woman you’re out with feel that you are confident enough. Unless your date gets the notion that you’re showing confidence, chances are she won’t be that eager to go out with you for a second time.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe though, boosting your confidence levels isn’t complicated at all. Why not follow these simple tips to help you get started in no time?


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