A Surefire Mistake That Will Make You Come Too Soon
So you’re noticing that you are simply lasting too quickly than you’d like to during lovemaking these days…
Now while this may be something that frustrates you and your lover when things get hot in the bedroom, it is not something that will stick with you permanently. You’re just making a mistake that prevents you from really extending your sex session like you’ve always wanted.
And this mistake is overthinking that you’re going to come too soon. I know this sounds crazy right now, but you’re definitely going to relax more the next time you and your partner get frisky in bed when you follow along.
Interestingly, everything that happens in your body during sexual arousal is basically the result of a hormonal reaction that gets triggered the moment the brain detects that you and your lover are getting at it.
As soon as it senses that things are already getting rather steamy between the sheets, it fires up the endocrine glands to produce and release certain hormones that cause significant changes in your body to prep you up for lovemaking. These changes include spiking up your heart and breathing rate, as well as sending a more than usual amount of blood to the erectile tissues in the penis to get an erection going.
What’s even more remarkable is all of this happens involuntary, meaning you don’t have to think about it even the slightest for this to be set in motion. This simply means that there is no need for you to tell your brain that it needs to stimulate the endocrine system to start churning out hormones, so you can get on whatever you’re doing.
Moreover, these hormones also help ensure that your erection will not fizzle out in the middle of your sex session as well as keep things in check so you won’t unexpectedly achieve an orgasm and come too quickly during the same.
But the thing is something else happens when you worry too much that you won’t be able to last as long as you’d like the next time you and your lover are getting ready for lovemaking. Now while the brain still stimulates the endocrine glands to produce and release hormones that cause key changes in the body, they will also let loose stress hormones in the process.
Stress hormones basically disrupt the reaction that their positive counterparts trigger during sexual arousal. Besides preventing you from getting a stable erection, there is also a very big possibility that you’ll ejaculate prematurely without meaning to.
So if you’re really looking to last long in bed, make sure you relax and just enjoy the whole thing.