Is She REALLY Enjoying Your First Date?

Is She REALLY Enjoying Your First Date?

I am really disappointed with all the stuff you can come across the worldwide web these days that talk about so-called “secrets” that supposedly make the woman you’re out on a first date with like you instantly.

Now while there are key factors that can help improve your chances of attracting your date like confidence levels, proper grooming as well as listening to her intently when you have a meaningful conversation, there is no magic bullet that can make a woman fond of you right away.

However, there is one thing I discovered during my extensive research into the female psychology that can help you determine if the woman you’re out with is really enjoying your date. And this is checking out how close she is sitting with you.

I know this sounds a bit odd right now, but you’ll find out more when you follow along…

See, women experience the same feelings of anxiety and concern during first dates as guys do. They also want to look nice, carry themselves well and pretty much make a good impression to the men they are going out with.

This is mainly the reason why it’s not uncommon for them to take a very long time to get ready for a date. And if you think you’re really nervous when you’re going on a first date with a woman, chances are she’s feeling the same.

So it’s not that unusual if your date starts out rather awkward. You shouldn’t be worried when this happens because it’s perfectly normal. Going on a date is basically your chance to know a woman better and establish an emotional connection with her.

The more you connect with a woman emotionally, the better your first date will turn out. The better your date will become, the more promising things will be sooner or later for the both of you.

And this is where the thing I’ve learned during my research comes in…

Simply keeping an eye on how close your date sits next to or across you can already give you an idea if she’s having a good time, which means she’s building an emotional bond with you, or the other way around.

The more comfortable a woman is with you, the easier it is for her to get out of her comfort zone. This means she won’t mind if she’s already sitting quite close to you or perhaps you’re having constant friendly contact with each other like her touching you on the arm or hand to emphasize a point while talking.

However, this doesn’t mean that you should already stop charming the woman you’re on a date with when you notice that she’s getting out of her comfort zone. Make sure you keep things as they are and a second date is already in the bag.


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