How To Hit It Off Properly With Your Date

How To Hit It Off Properly With Your Date

If you’re a guy reading this, chances are building an emotional connection with your date is a top priority on your checklist when going out with a woman you like for the very first time.

And unless you pull this off, there is a very big possibility that she won’t go out on a date with you again, which is definitely an outcome you don’t want to end up with.

However, I discovered something during my extensive research into the female psychology that can easily make or break your chances of hitting it off with a woman on your first date. Make sure you follow along to find out more…

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, simply looking like a movie star and putting on expensive perfume are not enough to ace a first date. Now while proper hygiene and appearance may be key factors in attracting a woman, neglecting to build trust with your date can blow your chances of making her like you no matter how hard you try.

Let me explain what I mean…

I’ve learned that women are more perceptive of attributes that are non-physical in nature when they are socializing with guys, especially on first dates. Besides checking out if you’re confident enough, they are also rather particular if you make them feel that you can be trusted.

And your chances of hitting it off with your date significantly rely on how you can build trust with her. Unless a woman thinks that she can trust you, acing your date with her is definitely going to be very tricky.

This is because a woman’s brain tends to produce and release stress hormones like adrenaline and cortisol that set off unpleasant effects in her body if she thinks the man she’s on a date with is shady. Sure you may have prepped up really nicely for your date, but things won’t go as planned if these stress hormones get in the picture.

Instead of scoring brownie points with her, you’ll just end up making her feel extra anxious and doubtful even if you’re doing all that you can to lighten up the mood.

So now we’ve got that covered, here’s a trick that I’ve also learned during my research that can easily make a woman trust you if you play your cards right. And this trick is listening to your date intently.

I know this sounds rather simplistic, but a woman feels that she can establish trust with you easier if she feels that you are earnestly hanging on to every word she says. Instead of releasing cortisol and adrenaline, your date’s brain lets loose their positive counterparts like serotonin and oxytocin, which make her feel happy and excited.

And when this happens, she’s sure to be extra comfortable with you during your date and it won’t be that difficult to ask her out again. Plus, you’ll also learn a few useful tidbits about her that you can use to really sweep her off her feet the next time you take her out.


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